one thing i have come to understand; that love measures more than feelings,its more crucial on how one sees 'Love' as.and because God is love, and God is perfect.

In God we find the perfect love we are lookin' for,and not in findin' a partner.

but,these 2 definitons of 'love' are different,one is based on feelings,and the other is based on true facts.

But then again,love is complicated.but i figured out that, if there were feelings mutual,but with the absence of God in btwn the r/s,thats not true love.

However,if it was really learning to obey God,allowing God to be in charge of this r/s,

there isnt any need to worry about feelings being mutual or not, cos everything will just fall in its right place when God is in charge.Everything will fit so perfectly,

(like wenhui say) so perfectly like how a glove fits your hands.

Therefore dear Lord,Teach me Your ways as i move on day to day,so that i may walk in Your paths.=) Teach me too,the lesson of 'Obedience' and 'Love' altogether so that i will also learn to obey You, and to love others, no matter how unlovely they may be. Because we ourselves are unlovely,yet You still love us so much so much.

As for you*, u'll always be a special friend to me,i believe,no matter where life brings us too.and so for you my friend i would also wish that God would guide ur ways 'n' light your path.

and i believe that you do trust Him for that because our God is a faithful God! Amen. =)